Oh five years of marriage seems to have gone by so fast.. and yes now we are the proud parents of two children. Kanishk came into our lives on the 2ns of February 2009. Yes had he happened just 10 days early he would have been the best gift i could give koushik, nevertheless 10 days belated is ok.
until he was in there in my womb i had no idea of how things would change after he would lann.there were a lot of issues to be taken care of . managing time at home , taking care of my health once again - of course mom was there for this, getting back to a normal schedule managing Kavya's time to go to school and the list followed - the topmost in it being managing Kavya's sentiments.
ever since I had conceived we kept telling her that she is soon going to have company rigt ere at home. someone with whom she could share her toys se could play at home, someone who would be her own brotherr or sister. but inspite of all the Gyan we gave her for nine months when Kanishk was right there the first thing Kavya said when she saw himm in the hospital was ' yeh to baat hi nahi karta' . her idea of her own sibling was a walky talky doll. and so she was disappointed to see a someone who ws so small who just would not respond to anything and whenever she would come close any one and everyone would say " kavya careful woh chota hai'.
guess it was getting a bit too much for her and the firt few days went in questions like 'tum mujhe paar nahi karoge'. sab use hi pyaar karte hai'. ho it wasw a tough time telling her that we love her as much , it was just that he needed more importance now. But then even she was a kid so --- difficult.
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